A Man Called Ove was my (physical) bookclub’s read for February. I’d heard of it, and thought it was on my TBR, but it wasn’t. Maybe I’d rejected it after going down the TBR hole once upon a time.

A Man Called Ove

Man called Oveby Fredrik Backman

A grumpy yet loveable man finds his solitary world turned on its head when a boisterous young family moves in next door.

Meet Ove. He’s a curmudgeon, the kind of man who points at people he dislikes as if they were burglars caught outside his bedroom window. He has staunch principles, strict routines, and a short fuse. People call him the bitter neighbor from hell, but must Ove be bitter just because he doesn’t walk around with a smile plastered to his face all the time?

Behind the cranky exterior there is a story and a sadness…. [goodreads]

My Review

Ove is an old man in a housing development somewhere in Sweden, who dislikes most of his neighbours. Especially the new ones, who are incapable of reversing a trailer even in an area clearly marked ‘no cars to be driven in this area’.  Yet they manage to get him to help them do things he couldn’t imagine himself doing.  Besides, he has other things on his mind.  Mainly his wife, who has done the unthinkable: died before him.

Fredrik Backman and his translator make a wonderful job of unveiling Ove’s past, explaining all the reasons his character is what it is.  It’s the minutiae that appeals to Ove, not the big picture, so there’s a great deal of detail in his way of life. Some of it seems predictable, and some is simply an insight into another world.  Ove is not of the world of wifi and iPads.  His world is engines, which he can take apart and reassemble. He would have been doing this on the railways for years had his code of conduct not put him at a singular disadvantage.  Fortunately, the trust of ages long gone meant he was employed in another capacity, one where this code would not be tested.

As we follow Ove through his life, we are also treated to the confrontations with progress he has at all levels.


Unfortunately I felt uncomfortable revisiting his sad past, not finding the humour that other readers find.  It has happened in other stories and films, where others laugh at things I find unbelievably poignant.  Finally, having skipped a few chapters along the way, I found a satisfactorily twee finale, followed by some reading questions (I hope my bookclub isn’t going to ask them).  A very fine quiz asked ‘How Ove Are You?’  Naturally, it turned out I am very like him—8 out of 10, in fact. It really isn’t funny. It’s sad.

add to goodreads buttonYou may enjoy Ove.  There’s a lot of similarity in tone between this and the Hundred Year Old Man who Jumped out of the Window and Disappeared, which I loved for its hugely entertaining take on European, or even world, history.  There’s no light relief for me in Ove. I’m too like him. Including my war with cats in my garden. Join the Eeyore club.

A quiz: 'How Ove Are You?' Naturally, it turns out I am very like him—8 out of 10, in fact. It really isn't funny. It's sad. A Man called Ove by Fredrik Backman Share on X

Book Review | A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman
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7 thoughts on “Book Review | A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman

  • 9 March, 2019 at 8:39 am

    Hmm. I haven’t been drawn to read the book, based on blurbs, but now you make me want to, just to see if I’m like you :). I don’t often find things funny that are uncomfortable or just plain awful for the person experiencing them. I never did like The Cat in the Hat; those poor kids with their world spinning completely out of control!

    • 9 March, 2019 at 10:19 am

      I’ve never read Cat in the Hat (Dr Seuss didn’t come to the UK until I was way past the right age for them – and no kids to read them to later). But I do have a book from Net-Galley waiting to be read – and I noticed yesterday the blurb said ‘for fans of A Man called Ove….’ I hope I’ll enjoy it!

  • 10 March, 2019 at 8:54 am

    Hi Jemima – I’m not sure I’d enjoy it … I did read the 100 year old man and that was quite fun – I could let my imagination wander off and learnt about places etc. If I see Ove somewhere I’ll probably pick it up – but won’t read it til then. Interesting to read your review though – cheers Hilary

    • 10 March, 2019 at 9:28 am

      I must say that I was one of two in the bookclub who felt the same way – the rest loved its humour, and thought it was a funny, sweet story. I think I belong to the old fogies club now!

  • 10 March, 2019 at 10:02 pm

    I listened to the audiobook version. There were no laugh-out-loud moments for me, but I could see the subtle humor working through the story, though, as you noted, it was filled with wistful poignancy.

    • 15 March, 2019 at 10:28 am

      Yes, I think one where you’d listen and smile 🙂

  • 26 March, 2019 at 1:42 am

    This book was selected by our book club. We all enjoyed it and saw aspects of ourselves in the new AND old Ove, except for the suicide thoughts. The movie (in Finnish, but with subtitles) is also excellent. Great review.

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